Still Nobody discusses my struggle with ambition. These posts are about finding the sweet spot where reality and humility align.

Who Put the Fire Out?
Sandra Austin Mello Sandra Austin Mello

Who Put the Fire Out?

High on a hill in San Francisco, my second mother waited in a hospital bed to be discharged from UCSF-Parnassus.  She had been there for 12 days, and the ride home to the Central Valley would be by ambulance because the pain of sitting upright in a car for four hours was something she could no longer tolerate.

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Good Enough
Sandra Austin Mello Sandra Austin Mello

Good Enough

A lack of skill has never stopped me from churning out the work. As I age, I marvel at my ways more than despair, and “good enough” has become a motto I stand by. 

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Tipping Point
Sandra Austin Mello Sandra Austin Mello

Tipping Point

“What happened?” is a great question. A tipping point implies a change is at hand and fingers crossed, it’s a change for the better.

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Telsa Problem
Sandra Austin Mello Sandra Austin Mello

Telsa Problem

I have a Tesla problem. In April 2016, I bought 10 shares of Tesla stock for funsies at $239 a share. This was right after the Model X was manufactured, but I was more interested in their home battery storage units and thought that was a smart, efficient way to give homeowners a way to store solar energy. Seemed visionary and good for the environment, so why not play with a mere 2,400 bucks that wasn’t doing much in my retirement plan anyway?  

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Weekend Warrior
Sandra Austin Mello Sandra Austin Mello

Weekend Warrior

Hey, honey, I said. Wanna hear a new pitch idea for my book?

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